Only
nine years old, Adriana’s early runaways surely needed parental consent. So she
never opposed to spending weekends or school holidays at her grandparents’
house. Her own house had its perks: the upright piano, her big desk, books
galore, arts and crafts, and all her cassette tapes. But she was sick of the
TV, because her older sister made it hers and while she was at it, the whole
room too.
In a
way, her grandmother spoiled her even more. She lived on Crawford St., a thick
vein in Little Italy. Downtown, they could just walk out and there would be
plenty of variety stores, video rentals and fast food choices all on one
street. What College St. is now would make for a whole different story.
The
best part about it was that her grandmother never spoke a word of English. She
didn’t need to. Besides, Adriana, who didn’t speak a word of Italian, had no
trouble understanding her gestures and shift in volume. Theirs was a dialogue
based on giving or receiving hugs, pasta, kisses, small change, the surprise
five dollar bill, and more kisses.
Adriana
grew up believing she was in her right with so much she had to put up with. Her
incompatible parents aside, at her Nonna’s house, she had to deal with boredom
though there were distractions that would one day be exotic: imported soap
operas, the religious radio station, the non-stop wheel dialling, and above
all, the unexpected visits of neighbourhood friends, old ladies who ranged in smell,
facial hair, kindness and chatter, whose sons would end up selling their houses
to head off for a cold “clean slate” suburbia.
Her
grandmother had her own living room and bedroom. So did her grandfather. They
would run into each other in the kitchen or dining room with a storm of dispute
always coming down. Terrified of her grandfather, Adriana stayed close to her
grandmother and never strayed into his living room, except on the odd occasion:
when he would go on his annual trip to Cuba. His TV screen was bigger and he had
the box, that one that unlocked all the pay-per-view channels. The room was
hers.
What
she didn’t understand and left a lasting effect was the Uma Thurman needle scene
in Pulp Fiction and Sharon Stone’s legs wide open on an office desk. An
awakening more than a scar, it was a future lesson of freedom in small doses.